Wednesday, September 21, 2005

I thought this didn't happen the second time around

I guess what "they" say about your first child being the practice child were all wrong. I mean, I can kinda see the point of that. The first is where you learn what's right and what's a mistake. Leave it to me to buck the norm.

I've already messed up Emmie. Probably for life. See, we co-sleep with her. Granted it's only half the night, but I'm just too tired to fight her at 4am. Plus, we brilliant parents thought it would be great for them to share a room. Yeah, that's not working out so well. Seems like the screaming that wakes me up is also waking Lexie up. Not good.

Emmie has also gotten used to napping in her bouncy seat or the swing. She will not sleep in the crib. Damn the crib, she cries. So, the only crib time this kid is seeing is from 11pm to 4am. That's five hours people (yay, I can still do math!). Which means I'm only getting maybe 4 good hours of sleep. Seems I've let Emmie become a bed hog while I was also destroying my sleep pattern. Add a bed hogging husband and you have no room left for me.

I also rock her to sleep. This is something I never did with Lexie. My back wasn't in too good of shape back then (was it only last year, seems so long ago). But, the back has either healed itself, or I've become so sleep-deprived that I don't notice, so I rock and rock and rock. Oh and I rock some more. And this leads to. You guessed it, a baby who will not go to sleep on her own.

The kid's only 4 months old. There's still time to reverse the damage, right?


Julie said...

Yes! You can reverse bad sleeping habits, but it will take some work. Good luck and hang in there!

Heather B said...

Guess who is STILL rocking their almost 18 month old darling spoiled brat to sleep?? But, now it only takes 10 minutes of rocking, and I lay her in her bed, and she usually sleeps the rest of the night.
As soon as you get a pattern down, they change it on ya, kwim??
I just can't believe she's already 4 months old!!!

Linda said...

I would say if you want to change the way she sleeps, better now than later.

Good Luck!!

Dawn said...

i have no advice to offer. i messed up the sleeping thing with both kids!